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Kristi Keller 🇨🇦's avatar

"Genuine artificial" 😁

This was cute until the no shouting part. That cliffhanger leads me to believe her home life is troubled 😕

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

People's home life, behind closed doors, can be at odds with what we perceive sometimes, can't it!

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Kristi Keller 🇨🇦's avatar

Yup. I totally lived that life.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

In Spanish they say, "Dios los hace, y ellos se juntan." God makes them and somehow they find each other. I suspect you and I had similar childhood experiences, Kristi, and we are not alone... Yet, here we are! Alive and thriving.

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Feasts and Fables's avatar

The lightness of 'genuine artifical white leather fringes' and 'two gallon hat' led us away from the darkness of the ending. Clever writing

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

If we survive our childhoods, half the battle is won... I try to focus on the best parts, but I never know what will reveal itself.

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Feasts and Fables's avatar

So true. The stories write themselves

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Rebecca Holden's avatar

Sharron, I remember this story, and I'm heartbroken all over again. Your writing is beautiful - and so are your hat and your artificial leather fringes. Sending love. xxx

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Thanks for your patience with my reposted archived work. I appreciate your having a second look, Rebecca.

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Kate Henry's avatar

That's one sweet little cowgirl. She grew into a strong and intelligent woman sending smiles wherever she goes. Both on life and on paper. ))

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Thanks! We had our ups and downs and so did you. But look at us now! Total winners.

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James Ron's avatar

I remember this one! - "even a two-gallon hat". 🙂

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Yeah, thanks James for reading it again. A bittersweet characterization of a young girl's life.

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Jim Cummings's avatar

I remember this one. I ditto Kate's comment. I couldn't say it any better.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Thanks Jim! How's that Loyalty Bar chapter coming? You taking some time off?

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Janice Walton's avatar

I know that little girl's storys and would love to give her a hug.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

I'd like to have that hug! There can't be too many hugs.

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David Perlmutter's avatar

Nice to know cowgirls existed then.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Yep, back in the dark ages... Thank you David for reading. I love your last name and its meaning. So unusual.

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Chloe Hope's avatar

So much said in so few words. Incredible. Thank you, Sharron.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

I am glad you liked it, Chloe. There is often a note of sadness in my memoirs. I try not to include them, but they always show up! Rats!

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Chloe Hope's avatar

Oh I can relate!

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palmisanocj@yahoo.com's avatar

Another gem, Sharron. Love the "genuine artificial white leather fringes." Hugs!

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

I was SO shy and self-conscious as a child. I can see it in the tilt of my head in this photo. I have a feeling you were shy, too. I am still very awkward socially. Funny though, I was very bold in my professional life. I had high self confidence in that realm.

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palmisanocj@yahoo.com's avatar

Goodness, I was extremely shy. Then in HS, my English teacher started picking me to read regularly, particularly when we did plays. We read the entirety of Merchant of Venice and I was Portia. He was also in charge of our theater productions and "strong armed" me into auditioning for The Hitchhiker. My passion for theater was born and the rest is history. Whenever I encounter parents who are concerned their kids are too shy, I encourage them to put them into theater programs. xo.

P.S. And I do still have social anxiety though my theater background helps me to keep it in check. I wrote about it in a Medium post which I plan to revise and transfer to Substack.

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Heather Brebaugh's avatar

Do you still feel that way?

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Thank goodness, I have found "a quiet place to rest a place with no troubles

and no shouting." It has been a really fine life, Heather, I have to say. Without a horse, though...

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Sue Cauhape's avatar

And there you are in the same outfit. You reminded me that I didn't have a white hat; it was a little red one with white trim just like yours. O.M.G. Thank you, Sharron. And I love your poem and your make-believe horse named Henry. What a joy is was to grow up then.

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