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Mar 2Liked by Sharron Bassano

Older <often> means wiser... but not always. My Mom never did get it right and chose the big goodbye. Kids turned out ok anyway.

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Mar 2Liked by Sharron Bassano

So true. We knew of an older widow who gleefully ignored the advice of her adult children and remarried the wrong suitor. It resulted in a sorrow-filled, remorseful late-in-life divorce. Lesson learned: At any age one must still seek and honor the advice given them by those who love them the most.

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Mar 2Liked by Sharron Bassano

Never too late. Ms. Wolf and I are proof of that.

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Mar 2Liked by Sharron Bassano

Love this prose poem and oh ‘tis true ‘tis true 😘 When we’re young, there are always more men right around the corner, and the next corner! We blithely learn magic just happens. Later we learn to pursue it.

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Mar 2·edited Mar 2Liked by Sharron Bassano

Ah, so very true. I wouldn't even want to consider it at this age.

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Ah, but the magic never stops and "life goes on long after the thrill of living is gone." (John Mellencamp).

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And are we looking for different things when we are older? Somehow I find the idea of having friends as well as solitude important. That's something I didn't consider when I was younger.

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Mar 2·edited Mar 2Liked by Sharron Bassano

Ah yes, the need to make wiser choices - I felt it. A great post, Sharron - you've really made me think! Thank you.

(I'm happy with the choice I made, although I was already ancient by the time I'd made it....!!!)

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Mar 2Liked by Sharron Bassano

Hi Sharron! "there is always a chance to start over." It comes at such a cost, doesn't it? A friend of mine started over. She's 72, happily married now for 6 months.

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Mar 3Liked by Sharron Bassano

Love this.

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Nice, Sharron! You have a way to go deep and get at the heart of thiings. Brava!

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You got it right Sharron!

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