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Heather Brebaugh's avatar

Hello Sharron. I'm sorry that you haven't been able to forgive your fathers for what they did and didn't do. But I do understand the challenges of forgiveness and how the inability to forgive wraps around us like mesh netting. We can see through to the freedom that is on the other side, yet we don't know how to tear a hole that's big enough to let us through. You certainly didn't deserve to be the recipient of their choices....just as you don't deserve to be the forever holder of those choices. Hugs to you...and thank you for sharing this piece....or perhaps it's peace. 💜

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Sharon Hudson's avatar

This is pure gold to me. I have worked to forgive my father’s shortcomings. It feels like some kind of betrayal to me, if I don’t. After all, I tell myself, he did the best he could. But did he? I just have to believe he did, or I would never forgive him. Thank you for sharing this. I believe there are many readers who can appreciate both your thoughts, and the poem.

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