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Richard Blaisdell's avatar

Spirits return after prays spoken , see the love and return to them. They will be there in your presence to guide you.

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James Ron's avatar

It sounds to me that your mother is back, and that she lives through you.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Thank you, Ron. I do hear her in some of my words.

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Jim J Wilsky's avatar

Beautiful, heartfelt writing Sharron. - Jim

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Thank you, Jim, for reading my 🌿Leaves. I appreciate your comments.

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Wade Terry's avatar

Your loss and pain are palpable….

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

I think they do not go away, Wade. They are not supposed to go away, just be accommodated...

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Sue Cauhape's avatar

Two very lonely posts this morning, Sharron. Lovely and melancholy. That lonesome void when someone is gone forever is a slow eroding burn in the heart. But it's nice when the burn is from love and not from unhealed wounds.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Thank you for saying that, Sue. You are always very kind.

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Mark VanLaeys's avatar

"But it's nice when the burn is from love and not from unhealed wounds." So very true.

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Switter’s World's avatar

Love need not ever die.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

That's right. Love is love, an "ever-fixéd mark", Shakespeare called it.

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Mark VanLaeys's avatar

So beautifully written - Thank you so much. It's especially poignant as, this morning, for the first time since my wife died, in my early morning quasi sleep state, I blindly reached over to pat her on the thigh - just desperately hoping.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Oh, I do understand that, Mark, so many small, empty spaces . I still hear my mom's little slippers padding around the house at night...

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Jim Cummings's avatar

I remember this vignette, Sharron and the imagery of the low winter sun and the white curtains and the breeze off the water. I'd like to think that Katy is in that breeze, giving you permission to put on that tattered red sweater.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

I keep it out, hanging on a hook. Just to let her know that I haven't tossed it out when she wasn't looking.

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Kate Henry's avatar

AAAAaaaaghhhhhh..

Its ok to mend that sweater.

Every stitch is contact.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Nah. I am keeping it just the way she left it. I bought her a couple of lovely sweaters that just sat in the drawer. She wanted the old red one. Thank you, again, Kate.

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Kate Henry's avatar

Yes. Better choice )))

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Sharon Hudson's avatar

She is there. She is in you, She is in the Gulch, outside among the flowers that are only in our memories. She is in the stories you tell. She is in the children and grandchildren, and 𝙜𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩 grandchildren. She is in the scent of rose geraniums. And forever in our hearts. 🌹

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Aw, now you've made me cry. I swear I can be reduced to an 8 year old girl by just a few sweet words. Thank you, Sharon.

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Rebecca Holden's avatar

So very beautiful, Sharron. Gosh. Our loved ones remain in so many ways after. xxx

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

They sure do. Thank you, Rebecca.

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Jack Herlocker's avatar

Lovely, Sharron! And beautifully read, though I don’t always have time for audio listening. 💚

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Thanks so. much, Jack! I am just experimenting with the voice overs. The verdict is still out.

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Janice Walton's avatar

And you were there . . . I know that wish.

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K.C. Knouse's avatar

Beautiful and touching, Sharron. Thanks to you, she never left, but lives on in your Katy stories.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

I am writing as fast as I can, KC! I wish she were here to get in on the stories I tell about her. She would love to know that I actually listened to her tales all those years.

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Parker McCoy's avatar

Beautiful poem. It's pretty awesome that you still picture her there in that red sweater, still living in what is still her room. This warms the heart. Great post, Sharron.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Oh, Parker, you are very kind. Thank you.

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C J O'Hare's avatar

I experience your words here Sharron alot like that soft breeze, and breath, and memory - even though many things in life are invisible, they can still be felt. Wonderfully captured.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Conor, thank you so much for reading my little tribute, and for your kind comment. I love to hear from you.

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C J O'Hare's avatar

The pleasure was all mine Sharron - I'm not getting online as much as I would like these days, my wife is 8 months pregnant now, and we're getting busy! But when I do get online, its always a pleasure to get caught up with you and your work ;)

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