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Kate Henry's avatar

Years in 50 words.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

"Years" is right! My dear boy is old enough to be a grandpa by now but he is still my boy.

PS. Are you receiving my emails with photos?

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Kate Henry's avatar

He'll ALWAYS be the boy...even when he's 100. ))

Nope, no recent pics or emails. I'll send one so you can check the address you have.

))K

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

I've sent a few pictures. I wonder if they are being directed to your spam file? I will send another one right now to see if you receive it.

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Jim Cummings's avatar

That Ranchero is so old-school surfin' USA California style cool. Always wanted one.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

He loves that old car. He's really cleaned it up, but he's keeping the original paint. Here are another 50-words about the same car. You'll remember

https://sharronbassano.substack.com/p/1963-ford-ranchero?

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Jim Cummings's avatar

I sure do.

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James Ron's avatar

Always wanted a mustang.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

So expensive these days. Unless you can buy a really beat up one and restore it.

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Richard Blaisdell's avatar

An opportunity to Vroom, vroom. Push pedal to the metal. Floored with the speed of time traced. Fifty words, fifty years . Thanks for sharing your post it note. My Camaro 329 SS once was so exciting to drive.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Vintage Camaro. Cool!

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Jill CampbellMason's avatar

Are we ever completely out of the nest?

That might have been yesterday, rather than yesteryear!

Fledged?

I hope both Fledged and freed.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Yes - both of us. My boy is having a great life and so am I. Sadly, with the passing of my dear mother, I no longer have that beloved nest. Boo hoo.

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Jill CampbellMason's avatar

Now your next is non-tangible! BUt still there.

My parents are gone from this earth, but the goldfinches--they speak the mother-tongue! And the rainbows, they scatter daily from the crystals that still hang from my windows!

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Lovely, Jill

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Sharon Hudson's avatar

I LOVE this little story..the absolute picture of a boy and his cars...growing up to be a man and his cars. Indeed, Sharron! Where HAVE the years gone? I remember your little boy, at 7 years old, in his little tux, for our wedding. He was so sweet, when he led Mama to her seat in the church.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

I have that picture in my mind as well... And the tears on mama's face.

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Rebecca Holden's avatar

That's so beautiful, both Sharon and Sharron. Gorgeous. xx

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Justin Deming's avatar

Such a lovely and thought-provoking story. Thanks for the mention, my friend!

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Yael Gelardin's avatar

Nostalgic? Little boys grow up, little girls too.

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Mark Starlin's avatar

The big ones are not as fun. Especially when they break down, need an oil change, new tires, inspection, insurance, gas, etc... 😉

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Rebecca Holden's avatar

The boys, or the cars? 😉

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

🙄

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Mark Starlin's avatar

Both. 😂

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Rebecca Holden's avatar

😁

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Janice Walton's avatar

Boy isn't that the truth? Where have the years gone?

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Sigh.... I am one of the lucky ones, though. My son and his wife live five minutes away. We are all global travelers, but we DO know where home is!

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Rebecca Holden's avatar

I'm so fortunate to live close to my parents. Home is home. They still live right where they moved to when I wasn't yet two years old. x

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Such stability! They were really committed to their relationship and to their children. What a blessing.

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Rebecca Holden's avatar

Deeply grateful. They’re both fantastic! xx

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K.C. Knouse's avatar

Little boys grow up to be big boys when it comes to vehicles. I bet your son could name the year, make, and model of every car he saw when he was a boy. Thanks for the trip down memory lane, Sharron. It's always a pleasure to travel with you.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Thank you, Ken. This story makes me a little wistful. I have so many memories of being a young mother, trying to do it right, often failing. My boy grew to be a really good man... in spite of me. I feel so fortunate.

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just mud by Ron's avatar

Now that I'm retired, I can now afford that . . .Hot Wheels! Alot of memories there, Sharron!

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

A sad coda: Wednesdaymy boy was rear-ended on the freeway by a driver who was texting. He was not hurt, but the dear Ranchero was totaled. Sniff. Gone to that great wrecking yard in the sky…

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just mud by Ron's avatar

Ohhh, my. Glad your boy was OK. Yes, there must be a great number of rides a restin’ there.

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Rebecca Holden's avatar

'Pajama driving' is such a beautiful term, Sharron. Gorgeous story!

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