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Thomas D’Arcy O’Donnell's avatar

.. Brilliant ! At yer very Best ! Will be sharing with my big Sis .. very much reminds of her ‘approach ofttimes .. 🦎🏴‍☠️🇨🇦

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Thanks, kid!

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Jim J Wilsky's avatar

Sharron, these stories about Katy are so inspirational. You perfectly illustrate a time when true hardship and struggle was so prevalent and so real across the nation but with young Katy, you personalize it and make it even more special. I really appreciate reading these memoir pieces. - Jim

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

So happy to hear it, Jim. I am honored by your comments.

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A.T. Symeonidis's avatar

What a beautiful snapshot of an era past when EVERYTHING was associated with hard work and one putting his/her shoulder to the wheel EVERY day of the year. This was the generation which singlehandedly defeated Hitler, Mussolini, and imperial Japan allowing the world to take a deep breath that continues to this day (although we're doing OUR BEST to ruin the immense sacrifices of the past).

My Greek American "parents," a wonderful couple in Middletown, NY, both now deceased, often relayed stories of their own experiences of those tough yet heroic years. They were my mentors and saviors whose presence and sustenance, moral and material, made me an "American" myself.

God Bless America and those who built it with sweat (and, often, tears) and hard work.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Thank you, AT. I hope you write about your "parents" one of these days. I am sure you have many poignant and inspiring stories of your own. We'd love to see them.

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A.T. Symeonidis's avatar

What a good idea! Maria (Mary) and Aristides (Ari) Nickles took six (!) Greek college freshmen under their wing as if they were their own children. I am still in touch with one from this group and every time we meet we remember the countless occasions when Mary and Art saved our skins. Art passed in 2000 and Mary in 2007. I'm sure they are in a far better place than the one I find my self presently.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Get writing!

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James Ron's avatar

I always enjoy reading about Katy!

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Thanks James Ron. I am waiting for your next one to be released - the one with the voice over.

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Janice Walton's avatar

Katy is a young lady with a lot of grit that's for sure. I can't even imagine having the courage she did at that age.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

No, me neither, just remembering myself at 16 and what a baby I was....

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Feasts and Fables's avatar

Beautiful storytelling.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Thank you, Barrie. I have ten or twelve Katy stories in her special archive now. Still have a few to go.... I sure do miss her.

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Rebecca Holden's avatar

Oh, this is wonderful, absolutely wonderful! I hadn't seen this story first time around - I'm so happy to have read it now! Thank you, thank you!

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Thank you, Rebecca for reading and for always sending comments.

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Jim Cummings's avatar

This is just beautiful with the direct quotes from Katy and your narrative voice to fill in the story. The whole story rings of cheerful triumph over adversity. I love her attitude and the fact that she found so many kindhearted people along the way. Wonderful Sharron.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Thank you, Jim. I just reread your Veterans' Day story again this morning. It moved me to fifty-five year old tears. Again. That era is so vivid in my memory.

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Sue Cauhape's avatar

Katy was a marvel. She was so lucky to land in a town with people willing to help her rather than take advantage. That man at the railway station could have steered her toward his favorite brothel, but didn't. Whew! The stories about how women survived and even thrived in the West astonish me.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Thanks for reading my stories, Sue, and for your always thoughtful comments.

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Sue Cauhape's avatar

Your stories are my favorites, Sharron. You have a rich history to draw from and a talent for getting right to the core.

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K.C. Knouse's avatar

I can't get enough of Katy's story. Your loving and honest approach makes her come alive. The intermingling of Katy's recollection with the narrative made this one special. There is a novel here. I'm looking forward to more stories about Katy's life.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

A novel! Oh, my! Here is another little one you might like, about Katy's home and family

https://sharronbassano.substack.com/p/the-farm-1926

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T. D. Wolf's avatar

It strikes me that Katy brought her guitar when she made her escape. That must have been a prized possession for sure.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Yes, a small cardboard suitcase and her guitar. Here is a brief story about her first guitar and her life filled with country music - you might find it interesting.

https://sharronbassano.substack.com/p/katy-a-lifetime-of-country-music-ea8

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Jill CampbellMason's avatar

Lovely as your thoughts!

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Thank you, Jill. I thought you might like Katy. I wrote Bartle Clunes just for her when she was 97. They became like neighbors to her.

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Jill CampbellMason's avatar

WoW! 97! Did she live long after that? And you? You're so fluent in feelings. I compiled a book for my own mother's 90th birthday that she had written called LEST WE FORGET, her memoir of tough times in Nigeria! We have such a beautiful serendipitous connection.

I made and bound many copies--so she could sign as an author at her birthday party!

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Do you have this on line or in a digital file? I am very interested in the memoirs of ordinary, yet some how extraordinary people of that generation.

Here is why and how Bartle Clunes was written for my mom Katy.

https://sharronbassano.substack.com/p/katy-writing-her-last-book

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